This past year has been challenging in so many ways, but when it comes to your love life, do not be discouraged. Several of my private coaching clients have manifested a relationship since quarantine started and so can you!
Have you ever heard of your “internal map?” It is a combination of unconscious biases or misbeliefs of the world that are often learned through past sensory experiences. In the dating world, those maps can work against you. The good news is, you can modify and create a new map for yourself at any age. How can these tools be used to change your life? When you see things differently, you feel differently, and ultimately you behave differently.
For example:
If you have consistently told yourself (subconsciously) that people of the opposite sex cannot be trusted based on past experiences with immature, emotionally unavailable cheaters or “ghosters” …chances are those are the types of people you will continue to attract!
Here are 5 ways to start working towards manifesting more lasting, meaningful relationships.
5 Ways To Improve Your Distanced Dating Life
Get Creative
Find ways to have more creative, outside the box dates. A few examples are Zoom art nights, games, wine tastings, truth or dare, or charades. If you live somewhere warm, it could be a socially distanced hike, walk on the beach or outdoor yoga.
Holding Off On Sex Can Be Beneficial
Zoom dates, while less sexy, help you get to know each other before getting hot and heavy! That is a great thing for those seeking a committed relationship.
Chat via Video
If you’re dating online, take the conversations to video within a few messages, so you don’t waste time and energy with people you have no chemistry with or who are unavailable for a real relationship.
Be Authentic
If you’re going through a hard time that’s ok. Don’t be afraid to show up as you are. Chances are, your date is going through challenges too, as this has been a difficult year for most people. Embrace that vulnerability, as that is what creates true connection.
Remember, your self-esteem and belief systems have a strong impact on the types of people and relationships you attract, and even in your ability to attract them at all. Take a deep dive into your internal map and be brave enough to pinpoint what works and rid yourself of what doesn’t, so you can begin manifesting a healthy and loving relationship today.
Vanessa Ringel
Founder of GRAVITĀS
Certified in Spiritual Psychology and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Head Matchmaker at Three Day Rule and Founder of GRAVITĀS, a Neuro-Coaching company that has empowered 100’s of singles to manifest love. She received her MBA from Regents Business School in London. Vanessa manifested her soulmate by rewiring her own subconscious mind, using the tools that she now shares with her clients.
